wat do you consider cheating??
ive asked countless people what they consider cheating and ive heard everything from having thoughts of actually doin something else with someone whose not ur girlfriend, wify, boyfriend watever the status is. The other one was actually having sex with someone else. So really before it actually gets to the sex part wat would really be considered as cheating......
I had asked this question on dl and these were some of the responses I got.
~~~to me its any thought that you know damn well aint right you have about some1 you have clear access to...or can get access to if you really wanted to.... so when chics got "friends" or exes and they try to convince their new partner its nothing....to me tha convincing is a form of cheatin bc you know damn well if youre able to just tell a chic...hey listen wats good wit u and she gonna drop her shit then yea its cheatin.....so simple things like "oh me and my ex still sleep together every night" or "oh yea she still live wit me" or "well i need some1 to hold me and shes tha only one around" but u steady trynna get wit tha next chic! like come tha hell on who would really be comfortable wit knowin they chic is basically taken care of by someone else other than them?! its crazy! but then again im real particular about things....and true to my sign im loyal but soon as you cross me or i think you gonna cross me bc of your random behaviors yea its a wrap....so i just tell ppl "look imma keep it 100 wit u so do tha same wit me" and if a chic cant do that then its a wrap....i honestly feel that distance tests relationships and if you cant trustem afar then you damn sure cant trustem near! tha reality of life is that ppl often times live apart or have to go places for business or trips and why should they have to babysit their companion?! no1 is always together.....shit i work too much to b up under some1!.....feel me?
~~~SLEEPING WITH SOMEONE ELSE IS CHEATING, THINGS LIKE HUGGING IS NOT CHEATIG TO ME.BUT KISSING, SEX, ANY ORAL SEX, TOUCHING BODY PARTS ACTUALLY LEAD TO SEX SO I WOULD SAY BASICALLY SEX, ANYTHING YOU CANT DO IN FRONT OF UR WOMAN TO ME IS CHEATING...YEAH BUT U RIGHT ALSO
~~~personally i think its anything you do with someone other than ur significant other that really makes you think like damn i wonder what he/she would do if she ever found out.....preety much anything you would have to second guess or question
~~~~~so wat do you donsider cheating whether its in a heterosexual relationship, homosexual or whatever you want to call it, in ur world wat exactly is cheating?????~~~~~

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